Let's imagine for a moment that you're feeling a little dissatisfied with your love life. You and your partner don't put much effort in sexually anymore and you long for some excitement in your relationship. The answer could be as simple as leaving your monotonous sex life indoors and venturing out. Here are five of the most thrilling locations to have sex with your partner, to increase passion, desire and excitement.
By Miles Pierce
1. The Beach
Gently lapping waves, still air, star-lit skies and a moon-lit shimmer on the sea can create the most perfect environment for romance. Suggest a late night stroll when you are near the beach and subtly lead your partner towards an appropriate patch of sand, relatively sheltered from prying eyes and other late night Romeos.
Choose a good spot and you should be able to let yourselves go under the cover of darkness and the remoteness of the beach itself. Of course you could always warm things up a little by suggesting a naked swim in the sea, which should be a suitable pre-cursor to a sexual encounter to remember. Just make sure you think of the logistics of getting yourselves home, potentially with wet clothes and sandy crevices!
2. The Garden
Making love in your own garden can offer that added security that no one will be walking past you or is likely to discover you. On the flipside there are those who will seek out that risk and wish to be seen in the act. Voyeurism and exhibitionism aside, your garden offers the thrill of the outdoors and the seclusion to let yourselves go and you can be as daring as you please.
If your garden is overlooked by other properties, fun can be had in finding the one dark corner that shelters you both from view, either wholly or partially. Remember to make sure you don't offend anyone who may see you, especially those with young families. Passion soon dies when faced with an angry neighbor who may not share your liberal views!
3. Mile high club
Most people joke about having this fantasy and it's perhaps regarded as a cliché due to its popularity, yet so few people have actually got away with it, or even attempted it. It simply won't happen on a short hop, crammed to the rafters budget airline flight. Your chances increase the longer the flight and preferably when overnight as it is dark and people are asleep, possibly even some of the cabin crew.
If you are both sat near a washroom, that's a bonus, and ideally you should sit at the back of the plane (pre-book your seats online to increase your chances of this) so as not to walk past hundreds of people who may work out what's going on. Choose a quiet moment to sneak in and the space is yours to enjoy. Don't rouse suspicion by shouting or screaming with passion and you should be fine. Even if the crew are aware of what you are doing, they may just leave you to it. Subtle passion never harmed anyone right?
If a stewardess is seemingly on sentry duty by the washroom thus rendering it off-limits, obtain a blanket from them and get busy underneath it. Of course full sex in aircraft seats surrounded by customers isn't an option but use you imaginations and fun can still be had.
4. Nightclubs
Some will pull a face here and regard this as seedy and not the place for romance. The truth is a spot of passionate, flirty dancing is essentially a mating ritual, a form of foreplay and a precursor to the main event so it is ideal. Nightclubs are usually packed with people looking for action anyway so the atmosphere is charged and ripe for you to take a chance.
Dark cosy corners abound in nightclubs and no one is likely to become offended by discovering what you are doing. You'll be left to it. Of course it's unlikely that you'll actually be having intercourse but some subtle touching after some sensual dancing is guaranteed to raise the roof in the passion stakes.
Should you wish to go a step further, then restrooms offer the usual benefits/drawbacks. You may even find other couples in there doing the same thing, should that be your scene! As always, discretion is the better part of valor so don't offend anyone, particularly the doormen!
5. Your Car
I'm not so much suggesting jamming the seats as far forward as they can go and clambering into the back for some passion, that's hopefully consigned to our teenage years. I'm talking here about using the car as a means of escaping and venturing to an environment more conducive to romance.
Imagine then, you whisk your partner away from their workplace on a summer's evening and head out to a great spot with a view of the sunset. It's up to you to then take things further, instigating romance perhaps with a picnic or a stroll as the sun goes down. It's easy to then be more suggestive. Finding secluded romantic areas using your car is child's play, there are infinite possibilities.
If all else fails and the weather takes a turn for the worse and if your car is big enough, you could always revert to the teenage tactics...